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One of my personal favorites, and one of the best songs about friendship I must say. Indeed, this song is all we ever wanted to hear in times we’re feeling down and troubled. In cases when we don’t want to open up for matters that we just want to keep to ourselves.
Have you ever been in a situation when you’ve felt so disappointed and you’ve thought of yourself being useless? Well, it’s just normal for people to feel like that, and you are not alone. Never hesitate to open up and speak your heart out because after all, you’ve got a friend.
“You’ve Got a Friend”: A Grammy-winning Song
Written in 1971, “You’ve Got a Friend” was first recorded by Carole King and included in her album, Tapestry.
In the same year, another well-known version was recorded by James Taylor from his album, Mud Slide, and the Blue Horizon. Released as a single, his version reached no. 1 on the Billboard Hot 100 and no. 4 on the UK Singles chart. The two versions were recorded simultaneously in 1971 with shared musicians.
“You’ve Got a Friend” won Grammy Awards both for Taylor and King. Taylor captured the Best Male Pop Vocal Performance while King brought home Song of the Year. Over the years, dozens of artists have recorded the song, including Dusty Springfield, Michael Jackson, Anne Murray, and Donny Hathaway.
About the song
Just like most songs, this tune did not materialize immediately. It has definitely undergone and experienced a process of so-called inspiration and reflection. As Carole King realized its creation, she shared some of her thoughts.
King has stated,
“The song was as close to pure inspiration as I’ve ever experienced. The song wrote itself. It was written by something outside myself, through me.”
According to Taylor, King told him that the song was a response to a line in Taylor’s earlier song “Fire and Rain.”
Furthermore, he expressed, “I’ve seen lonely times when I could not find a friend.” King’s musical response was “you’ve got a friend right here.”
King’s album was recorded in an overlap with Taylor’s, and King, Danny Kortchmar, and Joni Mitchell perform on both. The song is included on both albums.
To note, King said in a 1972 interview,
“I didn’t write it with James or anybody, really specifically in mind. But when James heard it he really liked it and wanted to record it”.
According to author James D. Perone, the song’s themes include an expression of “a universal, sisterly/brotherly, agape-type love of one human being for another, regardless of gender.”
The “reassuring” lyrics have long made the song popular with lonely people needing a boost of self-confidence. In addition, the song’s messages of friendship having no boundaries and a friend being there when you are in need have a universal appeal.
For Taylor, the lyrics had particular resonance due to the depression he had recovered from shortly before hearing King play the song.
Song Note: Differences between the two versions
A song that has been recorded by many other writers, “You Got a Friend” is certainly one of the songs that have undergone some fixing and variations as according to whoever sings it.
Mostly just slight variations, there are some differences in the lyrics between King’s and Taylor’s version. The biggest difference is in the opening lines:
When you’re down in troubles
And you need some love and care
When you’re down and troubled
And you need a helping hand
Watch Carole King’s and James Taylor’s versions of “You’ve Got a Friend” below.
Carole King’s Version
James Taylor’s Version